Sazz... sending you loads of hugs right now.

You know this is something I struggle with as well - and mostly because we are just so far away from being able to make a decision on what to do.

I do wonder where in the rule book it says that it's not ok to stop at one child. I'm happy with just one for now, but I've seen only children have trouble forming relationships with their peers at school and do wonder if we'd be setting Sam up for a really awful time at school if we don't give him a sibling... but the other side of the coin is that both DH and I had trouble at school and he was one of four kids while I was one of two.

I don't think there's an easy answer...

BW