Aww I didnt see that Marcellus till today. Hmm now I'm wondering what you posted LOL!
Thanks for the hug though.

Lenny, I tell myself that all the time. I think a child will be who they are because of a variety of things. Parenting, personality, culture etc all play a part, not just the absence of siblings although I guess that would be part of it the same way that your place amongst siblings can sometimes do.

I am already getting comments (Yesterday from my very ignorant, impulsive best friend who speaks before thinking) along the lines of parents of single children get it easy etc etc. Why must people be judgemental about everything? And without knowing the background behind things, or even if they DO????

Sigh. I'm sure this is just the beginning of having to either defend our decision to have one child or explain constantly that it isnt necessarily our choice.