The whole "your body knows what to do now" argument is really hurtful. Clearly, my body doesn't. I had a "friend", who I shared with after TTC for three cycles. She asked "OMG, what's wrong with you?". Great... it's made me not want to talk about TTC, or our plans for more kids, with anyone. My family is forever asking us when are we going to give DD1 a playmate, and I always say we aren't, just because I know how insensitive they would be if they found out.