wannabe mum: Great news on the great 12wk scan! it's beautiful to get those big numbers on the nuchal fold isn't it?

Dory: I can understand that when someone feels ready to be pregnant again it's a powerful pull and it feels really hard not to be. It's tough to balance that yearning with the desire to breast feed if you feel the two wishes might not be compatible. Is it ok to ask: are you just ready to be pregnant again or do you feel under time pressures to start trying again now (because of age; i don't know how old you are)?

AFM: all good. I still get anxious on days the baby is quieter or does these funny feeling kicks towards the back. I feel better when baby is moving round lots and kicking at the front. Today was a good day. Oh... and i'm feeling just enormous! You can't tell i'm pregnant from the back but if i turn sideways...yowsers! Huge basketball in front. I don't remember being quite this big at this stage with DD. I'm a bit worried about what i'll look like by 38 weeks! Where is it all going to go?!!!