Thank you Ferrals your the first person that has made me laugh in the last few days. Yes I do plan on drying the blankets not frying them. DH wants a boy. He has always wanted a son. Thats why I really wanted him to find out as I'm worried he will be a little disappointed when little Miss comes out. Although at the same time been a LTTTCer I think he does have a higher then average appreciation for a healthy baby regardless of the gender after the time it took to get here and our losses. Initially we did try gender swaying with timing BD but after a few months and our first m/c it became about getting pregnant. I've never had any desire to have any gender other then a baby so its no big deal for me but I think DH might suffer from gender disappointment I know he did briefly with DD but he said it only lasted a minute so I'm hoping its the same this time. He thinks bub is a girl although I guess he is hoping its a boy. Maybe its his way of preparing himself. Any I'm hoping it means he will let me have another he is still in 2 minds about trying again. Its the trying thats the problem.