Im too embarrased and shocked to say what Hubby did. I dont know why i try and protect him and dont want people to think bad of him...
If you knew the whole story about the ex, hubby and kids you'll probably wonder why i have stayed with him and why we had children. I have been with him for seven years and it has been nothing but major stress and heart ache and upheval with this woman. Seriously i jump at a phone call because it is always something..something to do with her and her life, or the kids. She is always getting arrested and effecting other peoples lives, going to court, not looking after the children properly. Abandoning them, Trying to cause our lives havoc and its probably has set of what happened Sunday because of all the stress hubby is under. It no way is it an excuse.... but she always finds ways to effect us when her life is going bad. I cant handle the constant drama its more than one woman can take...and its making me extremely stressed and unhappy and i do worry about what this unhappiness is doing to the baby and my poor DD. They dont deserve this because of his family and ex.......its not fair...Seriously she is not a normal woman and its not just a situation if a new family hating an ex family...this woman has serious serious issues...there is never any peace with her..and hubby seems to always jump and run to fix everything....but because im sane and look after my children properly he thinks its ok..i can look after things...but NO I NEED HIM ALSO...
That money was our security for the next few years. To know i could raise my children and have time off work and to not struggle as bad as we have in the past because of her, so my kid would not miss out....especially when soon enough hubby will have to start paying full child support and yet she can get away with no paying us nothing. and it makes me so angry because seriously she doesnt deserve a cent of this money..not a dime..
Anyways i may not even have to worry if hubby and i cant work things out. Im at mums but the problem is my DD becomes very upset and unsettled and just cant understand whats going on and im having trouble making hubby leave our home. I just want time to think things through properly and see if i can forgive him and see if i can actually put up with this constant drama for the next 5-10 years till the kids grow up......
My ob said you have to be under a fair amount of stress to effect a baby....but when it all happened....i could feel all the blood pumping around and my heart beating and it unsettled the baby completely and it was very strange and hard to explain...and it wasfor hours..it was just scary and im just worried.
Sorry about the ramble im just at a loss...sorry bout the lack of personals..ill get back on later..
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