CHILD FREAKING SUPPORT ARRRRGGGGGHHHH!!!!! DONT GET ME STARTED.

Melster-I will say this from experience dont stay in an unhappy marriage just for the kids it is not good for them and believe it or not they sense what is going on.
I stayed with my ex for far to long thinking the whole for better or worse thing i made my bed now i must lie in it and it wasnt until i could see my boys walking around on egg shells around us and always staying in their rooms and my eldest developed a nervous habbit that i said enough my kids need and deserve better than this they need to have a happy home and they need to see a normal parent relationship they had never seen my ex and i show each other affections or love it was always arguments and bickering and fighting.
Now my boys are happy and they see two parents in love and constantly kissing and cuddling and thats what they need a loving stable home that they feel safe in so they can grow up and know what is normal.
If you still love each other go have some councilling so a 3rd party can help your DH needs to put your relationship 1st and if you are only staying for the kids and security just think what the consequences will be when your kids are older.
Sorry if i sound harsh but i made a mistake i dont want to see others make the same one.

Mildez-good to hear bub is moving my rat bag wont stop like i said she is a disco queen and my ribs are paying for it but i love it.