Ferrals - oh sweetie.... every step along the way in this pregnancy, in my own experience, is just varying degrees of fear..... I don't know if it's easier to have a "cause" to focus on or just to be scared that anything and everything could be a cause. But either way, it's just a journey of fear. I have an understanding of the path you are walking right now. All I can say is... breathe and believe. My mum transferred a lot of her concerns to me.... like yours seems to be doing, but yours is being feisty!. Mine would repeatedly say "this could be your last chance... you need to make certain.... don't take risks... you're not getting younger and it's nt good to have a baby over 40.... and you can't go through a pregnancy like this again". I know she meant well, but sometimes it was hard to hear but a lot of the time I generally agreed ... in my own mind, not out loud! Can't be seen to be agreeing. Anyway missy moo is up for a feed... I think...better go.