I also wanted to add that Ferrals, i am so sorry that they effed up and u cant get ur answers u so deserve.Its just so unfair after all this time.I have a good feeling that everythung will be just fine for you this time.U really are deserving of holding a bundle of joy in ur arms..i will keep lurking to see how it goes..I hope the next few weeks can go quick for u sweetie....
Tegam-the 12 week scan was perfect the doc said if it had been our 1st and we didnt know about our bad gene they wouldnt do any other testing and the little bugger wouldnt sit still for them to look at the hands and feet that is what they are looking at this wednesday and i am sh#tting myself because i know exactly what to look for we had so many u/s with Abbi and i know exactly what the abnormal bits look like compared to what looks normal.
And if they can see what it is of course i want to know so we can give it a name.
The family is doing ok except my mum she is soooooooooooooo worried and wants to bash the doctor who dropped our test sample but i have so many people walking on eggshells for us waiting for some news.
Angelfish-I know i just didnt have it in me to argue i am emotionally drained so i just said whatever and went on my way.
Timeforafamily-Thanks hun my mental state is fine but the anxiety is a problem i stress over everything at the moment and i now have a cold and feel crap i hope this next scan on wed gives us some good news then maybe i can stop stressing so much.
ferrals i understand about being emotional drained. But it makes me mad at how you and your family are being treated. No one should be treated in such a way. MY thoughts and prayers are constatly with you.
Maybe we would all feel better Ferrals is we went a visited that dr with the dropsies!!!
So sorry for your mum! I think was can all put ourselves into her shoes, even if we cant put them in yours! When i had my first MC my mum was babysitting DD1 and when i walked in the door (looking distressed) i just told her to get out! Horrible but i just couldnt take her hurt on as well IYKWIM. Thats whats so good aboutthis forum, you can off load on us as much as you need to without worrying about us emotionally!!
We are you life line for as long as you need. Wednesday but feel like an age away...
Not sure how i feel about the Dr saying no to HB?? See both sides... Just hope the GP is doing what you need, who cares how i feel about it!
Ferrals - oh sweetie.... every step along the way in this pregnancy, in my own experience, is just varying degrees of fear..... I don't know if it's easier to have a "cause" to focus on or just to be scared that anything and everything could be a cause. But either way, it's just a journey of fear. I have an understanding of the path you are walking right now. All I can say is... breathe and believe. My mum transferred a lot of her concerns to me.... like yours seems to be doing, but yours is being feisty!. Mine would repeatedly say "this could be your last chance... you need to make certain.... don't take risks... you're not getting younger and it's nt good to have a baby over 40.... and you can't go through a pregnancy like this again". I know she meant well, but sometimes it was hard to hear but a lot of the time I generally agreed ... in my own mind, not out loud! Can't be seen to be agreeing. Anyway missy moo is up for a feed... I think...better go.
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