brendina - im exactly the same! im 13 weeks on monday ( my ticker is a bit off) but dont know if i have a bump or not as im not a very small girl but not obese although i feel a bit "fuller" down there, i also want to wait to see if i get bigger so i wont be going for a scan until 19 weeks. i had slight spotting at 5 weeks and i have a pain that shoots down my left thigh quite often, like a dull ache so im still very worried, but i know it cant be ectopic as i would know by now, but im still terrified! and im soooo sick all the time i dont want it to be for nothing!