21andTTC#1

It's so comforting to hear from someone who knows exactly what I'm going through - you seem to have had much the same experience as me so far! I even had the slight spotting as well - just happened once when I was about 7.5 wks - no pain at all but I totally freaked out - I was in work at the time & called my DP in floods of tears but I calmed down eventually & since that day, I haven't had any spotting or even discharge so I'm hoping that all is ok

Please don't be worried about the pain in your thigh - I def don't think that has anything to do with the baby or an ectopic pregnancy - if it was ectopic, you would surely feel more pain in your abdomen than your thigh - you also mention that you've been very sick so I would say that is a very good sign that all is well! I haven't had much sickness at all - just the odd times feeling slightly sick

I don't know if this will help you but I find it very reassuring to compare my situation just now with my blighted ovum experience. Last yr with the BO, I had a lot of brownish discharge which quickly became bright red blood from about 8 or 9 wks onwards - I haven't had any of that this time round and I'm now (like u) heading towards 14 wks so surely these are good signs!!

Please keep in touch - I will be keeping you in my thoughts & prayers - I really believe we will both be cuddling our babies in Sept