I have only ever found out with DD1 as we were living in the tropic's and she is a may baby so knew if I didnt find out at 20 weeks then by the time she was born there would be no summer clothe left if she was a girls ( I still had DS clothes so were right if it was a boy ) well she was a she so I got to do a lot of sale shopping


but with the other two I didnt find out... with DS I had every person under the sun telling me I was having a boy so it wasnt really a shock to see that he was a boy...

But with DD2 everyone even the midwife while I was in labour thought she was a he so it was a truely wonderful surpise to see she was a she and not a he that we all thought she would be.... so much so that when I rang BHL ( who was away at the time of birth ) to tell him he had a DD he thought I was joking and didnt believe me until he got to see her for himself....