My step-sister did the sealed envelope thing too. I think it is a lot more special to not have the doctor tell you too.
My DH and I are having a tough time deciding whether to find out or not, so we have decided that 20 weeks is too early for us to have made a decision to find out or not. So we are going to do the same sealed envelope thing and tell them that "technically" we don't want to know so that it isn't on our file and we don't get told accidentally, and then we can make the decision together when we are ready. And if we decide not to find out the envelope will never get opened!




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