I think its normal to want a particular sex. With DS was hoping for a boy. If he had been a girl I would have had alot of disappointment. #2 I hoped for a girl and we found out at the 20 week scan its a girl I don't think I would have been disappointed if it had been a boy but I was hoping for a girl. If we go for #3 I know I want another boy and I think I would be disappointed if it wasn't a boy.