I was thinking 1st time I would have a c/s due to medical reasons too. Fate intervened and DD was firmly breech so it I had to have one anyway. I did lots of research and spoke to lots of ladies here and received so much good advice that it was a great experience that I cannot fault in any way. Recovery was fast and I didn't suffer any discomfort afterwards.

You need to weigh up the risks associated with your medical reasons vs your partners ideas on c/s risks vs. natural birth. At the end of the day, the most important thing is the baby comes out healthy and you are totally comfortable with your decision as to how that's achieved as a couple.

Personally even before knowing DD was breech, I was prepared to have a ceaser even though the medical risks I faced were realtively minor just to ensure my baby came out healthy. To me, that's all that mattered but then that is just my personal opinion.

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