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Hi Mums and Bumps

I'm curious as to who's finding out their Baby's Sex at their Morphology/Anatomy Scan around 19/20 weeks and why or why not?

I definately am - Cos I just cant help myself!!! I honestly dont care what baby is, as long as he/she is healthy and happy! But I am amazed at the amount of people who feel its their right to tell DH and I that we are ruining the surprise. Well its our baby, our surprise and our choice. It has amazed me the number of people that have asked us if we are finding out and then forced their opposing opinions on us - sheesh (needing to vent!)

For me personally - Its still a suprise, just at 20 weeks instead of 40 weeks so I dont see the big deal .... Pretty sure as a first time Mum that labour will be a 'surprise' for me in itself (hahahahaha), as will holding my son or daughter for the first time .....

However, on the flip side, I do completely understand (and respect) that lots of people also want to wait until birth and good on you as thats what suits you and your situation - perhaps you've had the reverse and had people comment about you not finding out?.....

So Mums to be.... are you finding out? I have my scan on Dec 23rd and am hoping baby reveals him or herself LOL If not, then so be it!!

Naomi