We are going through this at the moment, amniocentisis isnt anything to fear and its pretty conclusive. I am glad to see you had some encouragement from your post I had posted a week ago when we found out our little boy had something wrong.
My oldest brother has arthrogriphosis which is a debilitating handicap and I know how hard it is to raise a child with an incredibly complex disability so all I can say is please keep your chin up till you really really know. They can be wrong and im also only 26years old with 2 perfect children and absolutely no reason for any abnormality.
Please see a genetic consultant as they are in place to talk to you about all these issues. Not just offer options they can put you in touch with people that can provide support. Downs children are very loving and gorgeous but you need to make the decision that is write for you.
I know how you feel on the kicking, you just cant get your head around what you have been told with this little baby kicking you morning, noon and nite.
Please let us know how you are going and make sure you get some support as I know its the worst time in the world.
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