I so know where you are right now, Smylie, even though I wasn't big before I got pregnant, I struggle with the idea of putting on weight because I've always been careful about getting bigger (I come from a family where weight has always been an issue - my siblings and parents all struggle with their weight). I just keep reminding myself that what I'm eating is healthy (sounds like your diet is too) and that it will come off when I breastfeed.

And the exercise is good for you and baby even if it doesn't change your weight! Great that your DH loves the way you look, it is important you get the support from home as well!