I am also quite over weight, not quite obese on the BMI but almost there! I was told with pg#1 that if I got to 115kg I would have to have my baby at a boger hosp. I didn't get that heavy, but I reckon only coz I lost weight in first tri from being sick!

with this pg, I started a little heavier, but again lost weight so they sren't hassling me this time, but a friend who is due any minute, had probs with them... they told her the same as they did with me the first time.

I had GD with pg #1 and waiting on results for this one, and I was completely controlling it with diet, no insulin.

Ok so I have completly rambled here... just letting you know that I am hearing you and that you have proven 6 times before that you can have a normal and healthy pg and birth.... try not to let them get to you...