I think the main issues with most health care 'professionals' is that they see someone as being 'fat' and imediatley assume that we either dont care, dont notice, or arent healthy. Oh- and obviously fat chicks dont get pregnant- which is why no retail stores stock maternity wear over a size 18!!!
If my body, against all the medical advice I recieved, got pregnant, than I'm going to have faith that my body can and will deliver a happy and healthy baby!