I am a bit of a tell all person when it comes to bubs gender. Like Allboys I found telling ppl with #3 a little dishearting when I got negative or sympathetic responses. If I have another bub (a big if) I won't be telling anyone.

From a spectators perspective I like it when my friends keep the gender a surprise, it is more exciting! Although I do get jealous (just a little) when someone has a boy lol.

Goodluck...Just stick to your guns and politely tell ppl that you want everyone to have a surprise.... So your not telling nanana..na..na