nup it's a secret for us! We're so sick to death of all the gender stereotyping you get from just about EVERYONE as soon as they know you're having a baby. "oh you MUST have pink for a girl!" i HATED pink growing up, yet just about everything i was ever given, from my drink tumbler, to the side-pods on my go-kart were pink! It was forced down my throat! And when i buy some baby toys like trucks (i'm a truckie for a living) i get "but you dont know what you're having yet, what if it's a girl" well with a mum that drives trucks why wouldnt my child, boy or girl, get to play with trucks and come in the truck like i did with my dad? I used to always steal my brothers hot wheels and tonka toys when i was little! So there you have it, it's all a big secret, which is annoying that it has to be that way but even the people who say they understand your aversion to the pink + frilly or the blue + tough, they just cant help themselves when it comes down to it, so it's better this way, no offending anyone if we hated their pressies, and no pressies that we hate!