OMG I can't believe that he said that to you, argh I just want to slap him. If you are worried about just fronting up to the hospital maybe you could ring them now and explain the whole situation to them and see what they say. But I doubt that they would turn you away anyway.

And don't worry about what he said he's just an a$$hole like the other girls said. And maybe after buba has arrived and your other Ob is back you can ring or write him a letter about the other ob's behaviour because that is just unacceptable.