Rachel - So sorry you had to endure that! I hope you have something sorted out now and that the birth goes to plan and is stress free!!

I recommend that you complain to the Health Services Commissioner about him. They have a website - I can PM you the link if you like. You can ring them and they will listen to your complaint and advise what actions they can take against him. I am absolutely appalled by the way he spoke to you and doing a procedure/test (sorry, am not sure what the stretch & sweep is) without your consent is just not on.

H