I agree Kris with the research. I definately did that, and it was nice when I engaged our doula that she recommended the same guy to me as specialising in all things women!

That is another reason I saw him now - see if I like him and trusted him and am comfortable with monthly visits until 37 weeks and then we will discuss from there. He seems great - his wife just had a second bub and they had a doula ( not mine ) so I think our relationship should be just fine!!!!

Mine stung a little bit going in - but really after that it is nothing - who said they were a wuzz - bigbubbabelly - lovey - you are going to go through labour hun, this is nothing LOL