Hi DrBee.....

Glad the ban was lifted for you, good news!

on to the topic at hand, I am having a similar situation myself. Although we haven't had all the issues you have, DH is really surprising me by not being interested in sex at all! As you know this is pg no. 3 for us and in both our other pregnancies we DTD right through, especially at this end of it in the hopes of getting things moving down there!

I have to admit this time I'm not really looking for it myself, I find with the other kids and being pg it's all just too tiring. I'm all up for a bit of a tease and the nice sexy text here and there but when it comes down to doing anything, it just doesn't happen. We did finally DTD the other night and for me it was uncomfortable. Didn't hurt but just didn't feel right. And DH admitted the same. He even said he could feel Bubbles moving around and it was a total turn off! So for us this is different, it's never felt like this before and we've never NOT done it like this before. I know this probably doesn't really help you much does it?

Maybe because you had to go through so much to get pregnant he is extra cautious of hurting bubs. Plus having a ban placed at all has probably scared him off! I can imagine after being on such a long ban you are nice and toey yourself and would like the intimacy of actually DTD, but maybe if you just start him off with some other stuff for you both to begin with. Just some touching, hand job, blow job (if you can manage!) and whatever he is happy to do for you other than intercourse. Maybe he might get so into it and realise what he's missing you will get to DTD after all

Best of luck!

xxx