You are definately not a weirdo! I would guess that because of all the stress you and your OH have been under befoer and during this pregnancy, that he doesn't want to take any risks by DTD with you while your precious bub is in there.

Our 1st pregnancy ended in m/c and it took 14 stressful months to conceive DS. During the 1st trimester, DH absolutely refused to ahve sex with me cause he didn't want to risk losing the baby. I found it incredibly frustrating cause pregnancy hormones cause me to feel qutie amorous, and i new that DTD would pose no risk to the baby. However that it how he felt and i tried my best to respect that he was just trying to protect our bub.

I feel for you and can understand your want to experience DTD while pregnant. Have you tried finding some facts about how non risky DTD the deed is at this point and discussing them with him?? I think the only way to get him to relax and DTD is by talking about his feelings on the subject.

GL i hope he changes his mind