min... okay lets look at the facts here so we can get your confidence back on track. There are PLENTY of studies to show that VBAC is safe and beneficial to you and the baby. There are studies showing that the more c/s you have, the more it increases risks to you, including haemorrhage, hysterectomy, and even mortality. Your scar is strong.

From the article, Caesarean Myths Exploded:

CAESAREAN MYTH NO. 2

Once a caesarean, always a caesarean

After one caesarean section, VBAC (pronounced vee-back – vaginal birth after caesarean) is widely accepted as appropriate and safe. However, after two or more caesareans, it is common policy for a mother to be automatically scheduled for an elective (planned) caesarean since it is believed that the risks of caesarean scar rupture increase with the number of caesarean operations.

Lack of evidence supporting this theory has led some researchers and obstetricians to question the basis for this accepted practice.8,9 Indeed, the highly respected Guide to Effective Care in Pregnancy and Childbirth concludes that: ’...the available evidence does not suggest that a woman that has had more than one previous caesarean section should be treated any differently from the woman who has had only one caesarean section’.10

While the number of obstetricians willing to support a mother through labour after two caesareans is believed to be small, that number does appear to be increasing, leading the authors to believe that the tide may be turning in this respect. However, it is rare to hear of a vaginal delivery after three sections and the authors know of no cases in this country following four or more caesareans, although cases have been documented in the United States.

One reason for such low numbers of vaginal deliveries after multiple caesareans is the low parity in this country and it is known that women who undergo caesarean operations tend to have fewer children than average, although the reasons for this are not clear.

It must also be accepted that many women who have had multiple caesareans will have no desire to embark on a labour, having come to terms with the caesarean section as a mode of delivery, and who may well have come to prefer the caesarean way of birth. Others may well take the attitude ‘better the devil you know’.

Consequently, the chances of an obstetrician encountering a woman in her fourth or subsequent pregnancy, who has had three or more caesarean sections and is well motivated to achieve a vaginal delivery, are slim at best, and he is unlikely to do so many times in his career. So few obstetricians are confronted with such a situation that knowledge of the true risks, or rather the lack of them, is sparse, and the confidence that comes with experience totally lacking. Individual mothers who wish to avoid further caesarean operations must therefore have access to information from other sources in order to facilitate truly ‘informed choice’.
WHO Birth Recommendations:

5. There is no evidence that a caesarean section is required after a previous transverse low segment caesarean section birth. Vaginal deliveries after caesarean should normally be encouraged wherever emergency surgical capacity is available.
VBAC:

A vaginal birth after a caesarean (VBAC), especially after a LUSC (lower uterine caesarean section), in the absence of medical complications associated with this pregnancy, is the safer choice for most women.

A meta-analysis of literature concluded that 7 out of 10 women, who undergo a trial of labour after a previous caesarean section, can expect to birth vaginally.
Do whatever you can to get away from this man. See if you can request another Ob, or whatever you need to do. YOU are in control, they cannot force anything onto you and that would be legal grounds if they did - they can't take your temperature without your permission. Can you get a doula or student doula to help advocate for you?

You have little time I know, but get onto this now, reclaim your birth and have that birth you want!!! Good luck hon xx