My previous c/s has a lot to do with having big bubs this time because the reason for the 1st c/s was pelvis size was under average, (by more than 2cm on I think the transverse diameter which apparently is quite a bit) so if a little baby was going to be difficult to get out for me then obviously a larger baby would be even harder to get out if I could get it out at all.

I know VBAC women can even birth breech babies, but every case is different, and cannot neccesarily be compared to other cases, the reasons for the initial c/s do have a bearing on the outcome, as I said in a previous reply if my pelvis size wasn't an issue then of course a big baby would not be an issue either. And just because there is a low incidence of actual CPD does not mean that there is no incidence, and someone can't have genuine CPD, I could be one of those genuine cases.

Jackson was wedged in quite securely when I had my 1st c/s and they needed great force and forceps to get him out and he had a big ring around his forhead, and he had only just started to engage, so this could be an indication that he would not have fitted.

I guess the bottom line is at some point, you have to trust someone in the medical profession because ultimately they are there to do what is safe for you and baby, the hard part is just deciding who's opinion to take, but in the end I am the one that has to be happy with that decision.