Oh the nesting instinct came in weeks ago. There is no doubt about that! I want to nest but can't until DH has finished painting and sanding and all that smelly, messy stuff. I have already cleaned out the pantry, bathroom cupboards etc etc. Bumps room is ready and all clothes washed and even hung up in size order. I have everything ready for him except the house smells like paint fumes and there are paint tins and crap everywhere and I just want to have the house in order but I can't do that until like I said DH is finished. And it annoys me that his father has to take him away from me to do other things that are not important right now.

And I am not at all anxious or worried about the birth. I am seriously at peace with that and know in my heart that we have made the correct decision for our specific situation. I just need my DH with me right now and I need my house in order and its all been taken out of my hands by insensitive people who are more concerned about what their needs are then to think that we may have needs right now.