Thank you Feeb. Somedays I will have that attitude where I just let it go. Other days I want to pull out my pregnancy hormones. I think it is worse that it is in my family. On top of the cloth diapers and breast feeding all my cousins are mad at me because if it was a boy I was going to name it jack after my grandpa (which I have had planned for years). Yet a year ago one of my cousins miscarried a boy (which is sad) and named him Jack. Apparently I was dishonoring by choosing the same name. But that name is so common. It is little things like that that set me off. And now I have to pay even though it ended up being a girl. I feel like going crazy plus my back is killing me from all those pregnancy hormones.