Blah. I dislike it when people judge the whole to breastfed or not, to cover babies butt with cloth or not THING.
Most of the time you'll find is because it didn't work for them. My nana is very antibreast feeding because she never got enough milk in and her babies ended up losing alot of weight, so in her opinion BF is a waste of time.

But, unfortunately everyone has their own opinions. Alot of people just forget that different things work for different mothers, fathers and babies!

I think it's a bit sad that they're not helping you celebrate at your babyshower because of the choices you are making for your baby, though. Boo to them!