well i completely agree with you hun and i always tell my friends who are pg or have children that you do what you want and do no let anyone tell you how to be a mother. Nobody has the right to tell you how to be a mother to your baby. They can give advice but at the end of the day it is yours and ur partners baby and you as parents decide. And you have every right to be annoyed i would be aswell. I decided to breast feed the twins but unfortunately after 10 days i was tired, sore and frustrated i just couldnt do it anymore my family was so supportive but the nurses i had come around were horrible to me telling me i was making a mistake and i wasnt doing the right thing for the twins ... this made me so mad but i couldnt keep breast feeding the twins the way i was.. from then on i told all my friends you do what u need and dont let anyone tell you otherwise... stay strong hun were all here for you.