Hi Kate,
I can completely sympathise with you!!! Hope you're feeling better by the time you read this...
As for H/B, not sure if it's medically proven, but thick-shakes and ice-cream seem to be ok for me...
Pelvic pain, I take panadol and have a bath. Also found that rolling a towel up and putting it under one side of my back (normally my right side) helps me...
The kicks in the ribs - I have them myself and really haven't found a solution, but I try to breathe deeply (although that sometimes hurts too!!!) and if I change my position, sometimes bub changes his...
As for the crying... I had a big cry to my best friend this morning because everyone keeps commenting on how 'big' and 'swollen' I am... Just what you want to hear when you already feel like cr@p!!!
Take care hun - hope you feel better.
Lily