Kanda- if you go to the website of major baby shops, they generally have one you can download- i got mine from babies galore.
We went through and crossed out what we didnt want/need and also marked things that we would need but not till a later date- like high chair, then when people asked what they could buy we showed them the list. It worked out really well.
Hheeee it had stuff on there that I never knew existed and stuff I didnt even think i would need!