We make my almost 14 year old do the bend over test before she goes out ( as in if we can see bum cheek when she bends over the shorts / skirt are too short to be worn out in public) and so far we've only had one argument about how I'm being mean and unfair.

If her older brother had his way she'd never leave the house with any skin showing as he gets really stressed out with some of her clothes. Mostly she's a boho mess but sometimes she pulls it together to look good!!

DD2 is growing so quickly that she always wears boarded under her dresses otherwise she ends up flashing her knickers within 2 weeks of owning something new.