I agree with Marydean on this. Both of them need to be understanding and respectful of each others situation. She needs to understand that there is not much he can do whilst away. He needs to understand that it is hard for her and that he needs to be a sounding board for her at times.

I found what helped me get through the times away was to look at the positives of it all. I could watch what I wanted on TV, not have to put up with his annoying channel surfing, eat what I wanted for dinner, not have the house clean that day if I needed a break etc.

Good on you Nadine for looking out for her, hopefully she realises that she is not alone.