I know the feeling. We've been together for 10 years and I was 17 when we first met. I'm definitely a very different person to what I was then but so is he.

Him not loving me the way I want him to is a constant struggle. But I've also had to re think what was most important, I was striving for perfection when there wasn't such a thing. I feel a lot better about it now, but that's me. Some days I still think "am I doing the right thing".

I guess you really need to work out what it is you aren't happy with and if you're willing to never have them, is it just a rough patch or are these things you need in your life? Only you will know the answer

Hoping you work things out either way so that you're happy. If there's anything I can do to help, even just to listen I'm always about!