Thank you for your support. It has been a very hard week trying to hold it together to take care of my daugther. I have talked to him about giving us 6 months to try and see if we can make it work and that we owe it too our family try and work through this with some help rather than give up on our marriage. He is not willing to do that, he is pretty adament that he is not going to feel any different. We had a weekend planned away next week which was meant to be a romantic weekend away without our daughter. We are still going away but now to talk about how to separate our lives as amicably as possible and how to do the best thing by our daughter. We will then tell our friends and family when we get back.

You might think I'm giving in too easily but I can't be the only one fighting for our marriage and family. I know him well enough to know when he has made up his mind.I think it will be good for me to go to councelling to help me deal with this. I'm just soo devasted for me and my DD and that my whole future life that I thought I had together with him is now not going to happen.