hun, this might sound horrible, but, do you really want this "man" to be part of bubs life?

trust me, the lame amount of $$ you will get is nothing to be bothered to strive for.

You and bubs might just be better off if you have nothing to do with him.

I know its hard, but its something that i guess you should consider.

Be strong!!!

And sorry if my input is not wanted.