I can totally relate to this. my ex left when he found out i was pregnant. i saw him twice in the 9 months of the pregnancy. he kept saying that he believed he was the father but still wanted a dna test. I gave birth 2 weeks early (due to complications i had known about for some time) I had kept him informed via text messages on how our baby was doing.
Because of his behaviour he missed our daughters birth and i let all my friends and family meet her before he got a chance to.
we went to court when she was 6 weeks old and he tried to get joint custody but still wanted a dna test. The judge said no to joint custody but approved the dna test thing. it came back at 99.9% positive. because he got the test done it meant he had no choice but to agree to child support all though i very rarely get it.

we were back in court again when she was 5 1/2 months old and he again tried for joint custody and again got denied. So now he has my daughter every second weekend for the saturday night only. ( He didnt want her for two night because it would interupt his social life to much ( go figure) H ealso gets her for a few hours on her birthday, his birthday, christmas day and fathers day. Although he misses most of those visitations with her because he cant be bothered.

Honestly if id known back then what i knew now i wouldnt have let him know she was born or have him sign the birth certificate. My daughter hates going to his house and most of the time he dumps her on his mother or grand mother so he can go out.

I thought i was doing the right thing giving him a chance to know his daughter but he just abuses thee wonderful gift i gave him and since we have court orders, even though he rarely pays child support i still have no choice but to send her to him unless i want to go back to court again which i cant afford.

So Kailz maybe it might be better just to forget about your babys father cause sometimes they just give you more problems then they're worth. My daughter is now 3 1/2 years old and i still have issues trying to get her father to see her when he is supposed to and to pay up his child support.