XH is seeing the kids less and less these days
He was having the girls (2 and 3) one weekend night and our little man (1) the other but now he seems to find excuses why he can't...he gets home from work to late, he is to tired, he has to go on his dads boat
He pops in when he feels like it satys for 10 mins and then leaves.
I will not tell the girls when he is coming because inevitably he will not turn up and I have seen them upset by it to many times already.
I think the kids are picking up on it as he quickly popped in the other day and DD2 (3) would not talk to him at all...wouldn't even look at him or acknowledge that he was even there and then last night he came over at 7.30pm DD's where up but bub was asleep...but as he left bub woke up so he wanted a cuddle I got him and XH took him but no...bub only wanted me...arms out back t me.
We have only been separated 4.5mths and he seems to be bored with them already goodness knows what he will be like in a years time.
It is the kids I feel for they are missing out on their dad...really it doesn't take that much effort to be a decent father.