Yes your right MN it is so unfair!! They just seem to think they can wander in and out with no real responsibility.
As much as I love my kids I could really do with a night out...but that is not going to happen in a hurry.

You hit the nail on the head Feijoa mum...sounds like you have been there before too...it does suck!!

Thanks feeb

Who needs a man...I was quite chuffed with myself when I put a new flyscreen in my back sliding door...and it looks great