I know your only generally speaking. But some women are to. At least your willing to allow XP to see kids. My hubby's makes it harder and harder.
i agree that some woman are very selfish when it comes to all this stuff as well but its 90% men lol... and i also think that men should their kids after seperations but ONLY if they stick to it, it stuffs the mother and the kid around way too much if they are coming and going as they please... its easier on the kid if they just go away all together than coming and going i think... i have friends whos families were like that and now they WISH that they were in a single parent family cuz it would have been easier to have one parent around than to see 2 parents fight all the time and see dad come one week then not come for 6 months...