My XDP has recently started to attempt to be a decent Father again. The first time he seen DS in ages, he asked who he was and I could only manage to tell him that it was Mummy's friend. Glad I did too and that I don't tell him when he is seeing him because 4 times out of 5 he cancels and the times he does show, he is late. I didn't really expect anything different but I admit I did have a little cry over it. I don't want my lil guy growing up thinking his Father is a horrible person so have never said a bad word about him but he is showing DS what he is like anyways *sigh*