He was willing to cut her out yes, but he didn't want to. I think maybe he knew that if he went and saw her that i would snap and end it and i did. he wanted to finish what he started and have all care and no responsibility with her. I made a decision that if he didn't put our relationship above all else in how he dealt with this situation, then it was over. thats what happened. he put how she felt being dumped as a friend over the hurt he would and had casued me. It makes me angry but at them same time, i am sad but happoer than i have been in a long time.

My friends have really rallied and those friends we both know that are mature and level headed agree that i am right and if need be will support my decision to seek court orders to protect my son.

Kira