Now I am with a man who a while ago was actually kind of afraid of kids and said he didn't like them (due to spending time with our friends children.. we've been friends for 13years). But he's said after seeing me look after DS and spending time with DS he could definitely see himself with his own children one day and seems to enjoy spending time with me & DS. I had listened to my ex and thought no one would ever want me because I'm a single mother, but that wasn't true.

I think that men see how we interact with our children and they see a strong caring loving women and realise that the kids side is not that bad at all.