But i'm convinced that all kids of single mothers (or fathers) can still be just as happy. Can't they? I have to believe this, or else whats the point in pouring my heart and soul into being the best Mum I can be if i'm just going to raise a child who feels neglected anyway? Seems kind of like fighting a losing battle if that's the case.

I hope I never hear the line 'Well, I never knew my dad, what did you expect?' or something like that.

Surely, despite the unsuitable men some of us have chosen to be our baby's dads, we can still raise happy, healthy, fulfilled, successful children who have no doubt they're loved?

3 weeks from having my first baby, this issue is my biggest fear.