I had babies very young and feel exactly the same as you! I get so envious of my firends whithout kids. It seems to me that they all have fantastic jobs, they're all going on overseas holidays and partying all weekend I just feel as though I've missed out on a 'life'. If I'd waited to have kids I could have done more with my life.....BUT then I remember that they are now in their mid 30's and only starting to have families. When my kids are turning 18 I'll only be 40ish and still young enough to enjoy life without kids - they will still be running around after little children at 40! That makes me feel better


Youngmumma I wonder if you have someone who can look after your little boy once a month so you can go out and be 'young'? If you live near me I'd be only to happy to help you.