You poor thing - it must be so tough! The thing is, no matter how much you may not want the father to be in the baby's life, i think it would be horrible to exclude the grandparents - their sons actions are not their fault - and in keeping with contact with them, i guess there has to be some kind of contact with the father.

This really is a tough one - its horrible that they abandoned you too - but did his parents know about the baby when you fell preg?

I really feel for you!